Confusion

सही रास्ता कैसे चुनें?
सही रास्ता कैसे चुनें?
12 min
तुम्हारी समस्या यह नहीं है कि तुम्हें सही और गलत का ज्ञान नहीं है, बल्कि यह है कि सही राह सामने होने पर भी तुम उस पर दो कदम बढ़ाने का साहस नहीं करते। तुम्हें केवल अंतिम मंज़िल की उत्सुकता होती है, और आलस तुम पर हावी रहता है। जो सही और उचित प्रतीत होता है, वहां तक होशपूर्वक चलो और उसके प्रति निष्ठा रखो। जैसे-जैसे आगे बढ़ोगे, राह स्वयं खुलती जाएगी।
Why Lack of Clarity Complicates Life?
Why Lack of Clarity Complicates Life?
5 min
What is clarity? To be immediately certain. Certain of what? That which is certain, that which is unchangeable. Obviously, without knowing the airline schedule, you cannot be immediately certain of that. And why must and why cannot you be immediately certain of things like train schedules? Because they keep fluctuating anyway. Therefore, clarity is not being cocksure about things that are anyway volatile and changeable. Clarity is about being certain of that which ‘is’, that which is unchangeable. Therefore, clarity has a direct relation with faith; you cannot be clear without having faith in the heart.
विचारों की बेचैनी से मुक्ति कैसे पाएँ
विचारों की बेचैनी से मुक्ति कैसे पाएँ
16 min

प्रश्नकर्ता: सर, मन शान्त नहीं है। सवाल तो है नितनेम से पर उन सवालों के जवाब ले पाऊँ, ऐसी मैं नहीं हूँ। सवाल लिखूँगी तो बेईमानी हो जाएगी। माफ़ करिएगा।

आचार्य प्रशांत: आदमी का कर्ता भाव बड़ा सघन होता है। ‘मैं’ सवाल लिख रही हूँ। ‘मैं’ जवाब सुनूँगी। ‘मैं’ जवाब

Drugs for Spiritual Growth || Neem Candies
Drugs for Spiritual Growth || Neem Candies
1 min

The world is a habit, but drugs are a worse habit. The one who is finding refuge in drugs is fed up of the usual stuff of consciousness, that is certain, but he is taking a very wasteful route. It’s like feeling cold in Delhi in the month of December

How Will You Know When Kaliyug Is Over?
How Will You Know When Kaliyug Is Over?
3 min

Acharya Prashant: The four yugas in the Vedic tradition have been Satyug, Treta, Dvapara, and Kaliyug. Now, what do they represent? Do they represent the passage of time? Do they represent something historical? We have been led to believe that way, right? We believe that time is something external that

When Everything Appears Unsure and Uncertain
When Everything Appears Unsure and Uncertain
6 min

Questioner: So, the thing is, we have already decided to go on a path of whatever we want to achieve, and I am sure of it that okay, I like this, I am interested in it, and suddenly due to some of the other reasons, I feel am I on

Confront Yourself before you Confront Others || AP Neem Candies
Confront Yourself before you Confront Others || AP Neem Candies
1 min

Acharya Prashant: You must never be afraid of questioning others. More importantly, you must never be afraid of questioning yourself. The second part is tougher. It is easy to question others, relatively easy at least. Questioning oneself hurts the ego, but that’s what one must practice.

Question yourself: “What am

How to Face Cancel Culture?
How to Face Cancel Culture?
3 min
Cancel culture arises when one's fundamental identity is social. If you take your identity from society, you've given them the right to cancel it. Don’t let anyone control your centre. Be your own master. Be of the world and live yet, independently of the world. Let them cancel what they can! That’s what spirituality blesses you with—your real identity, which no one can dare cancel.
सही-गलत, अच्छा-बुरा
सही-गलत, अच्छा-बुरा
8 min

आचार्य प्रशांत: गलत-सही का निर्धारण बस एक चीज़ से होता है — आप आंतरिक तौर पर हल्का अनुभव कर रहे हैं कि नहीं कर रहे हैं। इसी से समझ लीजिए न (पानी का गिलास उठाकर)। अगर इसकी आदत है अपने में जोड़ते ही रहने की, चिपकते ही रहने की, तो

महात्मा बुद्ध ने अपने भिक्षु को माँस खाने की अनुमति क्यों दी?
महात्मा बुद्ध ने अपने भिक्षु को माँस खाने की अनुमति क्यों दी?
5 min
बुद्ध निर्विकल्प जीवन जीने को कहते थे| निर्विकल्पता में आता है कि पात्र में जो दे दिया विधि ने, वहीं खा लेना है। अगर बुद्ध ने अपवाद खड़ा कर दिया होता, तो भिक्षु निर्विकल्पता का पालन करने से मुकर जाते| तो बुद्ध ने कहा, ‘नहीं, अब आ ही गया है माँस तो खा लो। वैसे भी इसको तुमने मारा नहीं’। पर ये समय सापेक्ष बात है | भूल होती है, जब कहते हैं ‘बाज़ार में जो माँस है, हमने तो मारा नहीं,तो हम उसे खाएँगे।’ ये मत कर लेना, ये केंद्रीय, कालातीत बात नहीं|
जो गलत है, वो छूटता क्यों नहीं?
जो गलत है, वो छूटता क्यों नहीं?
18 min

प्रश्नकर्ता: जो इतने वर्षों में सीखा, घर में रहकर, दोस्तों के साथ, शिक्षा में, उसका बल इतना है कि लगता है कि वो गलत है — ये मैं अपना एक प्रोजेक्शन (प्रक्षेपण) कर रहा हूँ; गलत लगता तो छोड़ ही देता — लेकिन बल इतना है कि उसको गिराने के

How to Overcome Procrastination?
How to Overcome Procrastination?
6 min
Procrastination is nothing but the postponement of misery. ‘If I do it right now, I will feel miserable.’ So I try to escape by sending the thing into the future. But if I loved what I did, would I still procrastinate? After all, one never delays love.
Decision-Making Made Easy
Decision-Making Made Easy
4 min
Decision-making is such a problem with most people, whereas decision-making should not be needed at all. One should not be required to make a choice at all. Clarity makes the entire process of making a choice very redundant. If you know who you are and what you want, if you have that clarity, why will you require to spend time thinking about the choice to make? If you are someone who remains confused in the hour of the choice, then you should know that the confusion is not about that choice in particular. The confusion is arising due to an inner darkness.
What Is the Price of Freedom?
What Is the Price of Freedom?
5 min
Freedom is invaluable, it is who you are, and you won’t get any kind of rest or peace without freedom. If you are not free, something within you would keep bleeding, wailing, crying for liberation. It’s just that once you agree to pay the price, you discover that the thing that you are paying for freedom actually carries very little value, even negative value. Your bondages is the price that you pay; your bondages are the things that you renounce to be free.
Why Help Others be Liberated?
Why Help Others be Liberated?
8 min

Questioner: You have said that individual liberation is not possible: that either we go together, or nobody can go. So, we have to help others to cross over. But I can’t help even the people close to me; they are caught up in routine work or indulge in entertainment; no

How to make difficult choices? || Acharya Prashant, with youth (2013)
How to make difficult choices? || Acharya Prashant, with youth (2013)
4 min

Question: If a student has to select a stream after class twelfth and he is interested in both medical and engineering, how does he select the stream without thinking about the future?

Speaker: See, the problem is that we make our choices by looking at the future. We make our

Confusion arises from choice; choices from ignorance || Acharya Prashant at IIT-Delhi (2013)
Confusion arises from choice; choices from ignorance || Acharya Prashant at IIT-Delhi (2013)
5 min

Listener : Why is there confusion in the mind?

Speaker : What is confusion? Confusion is conflict. Confusion is the presence of many options and your inability to know. Confused, there are so many things and they are tangled together, they are fused together. That’s what confusion is.

We said

When you refuse to know it is because you believe that you already know || Acharya Prashant (2015)
When you refuse to know it is because you believe that you already know || Acharya Prashant (2015)
6 min

Question: Can this happen that ‘I don’t know and I don’t even want to know, and that there will always be something more to know’? Can this happen that a person thinks that ‘I am so peaceful that I don’t even want to know’?

Shri Prashant: You see, these are

No action in continuation of restlessness will take you to rest || Acharya Prashant (2015)
No action in continuation of restlessness will take you to rest || Acharya Prashant (2015)
4 min

Question: Sir, as you said right now that when I am really here, then there is no opportunity for restlessness. But when I am really here, a restlessness, an inner thirst, is there. And this thirst is unbearable.

Shri Prashant: No, you call that restlessness. It is never there on

उड़ सकती हूँ, पर कहाँ को? || आचार्य प्रशांत (2023)
उड़ सकती हूँ, पर कहाँ को? || आचार्य प्रशांत (2023)
34 min

प्रश्नकर्ता: नमस्कार आचार्य जी! ये मेरा पहला सत्र है आपके साथ में, और पहली बार भी। बात करने का मौक़ा भी मिल गया। तो मैं बहुत खुश हूँ इस बात को ले के। सवाल इस प्रकार जब मैं आयी थी यहाँ पर तो मैं लेकर नहीं आई थी। मेरा एकमात्र

चाँद से चाँदनी लो, धब्बे नहीं || आचार्य प्रशांत, बातचीत (2023)
चाँद से चाँदनी लो, धब्बे नहीं || आचार्य प्रशांत, बातचीत (2023)
85 min

प्रश्नकर्ता नमस्ते सर, आज की बातचीत थोड़ी कॉन्ट्रोवर्शियल (विवादित) होने वाली है

आचार्य प्रशांत: कोई बात नहीं होती रहती है कॉन्ट्रोवर्शी।

प्र: मैं आपसे गुरुओं के ऊपर बात करना चाहता हूँ और इस पूरी बात की शुरुआत आज से दस या बारह साल पहले से होती है।

आचार्य: क्या हुआ

सही फैसले कैसे लें? गलत चुनाव से कैसे बचें? || आचार्य प्रशांत, आइ.आइ.टी. कानपुर के साथ (2023)
सही फैसले कैसे लें? गलत चुनाव से कैसे बचें? || आचार्य प्रशांत, आइ.आइ.टी. कानपुर के साथ (2023)
21 min

प्रश्नकर्ता: प्रणाम, आचार्य जी। पहले मैं आपको बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद देता हूँ कि मैं आपको लगभग छह महीने से मैं सुन रहा हूँ और मुझे बहुत फ़ायदा हुआ है।

मैं आगे बढ़ते हुए पूछना चाहता हूँ कि हमें हमेशा कुछ-न-कुछ चुनाव करना होता है कि ये करें या तो ये करें।

जीवन में अगर कई चीज़ें आकर्षित करती हों || आचार्य प्रशांत (2020)
जीवन में अगर कई चीज़ें आकर्षित करती हों || आचार्य प्रशांत (2020)
27 min

आचार्य प्रशांत: पूछते हैं कि युवा हूँ और अपने जीवन में कई अलग-अलग पहलुओं को पाता हूँ। फिर इनके जीवन में वो अलग अलग पहलू क्या है, उसकी छोटी सी सूची दी है। तो एक पहलू है पढ़ाई और कैरियर का। अगला है गर्लफ्रेंड और प्रेम प्रसंगों का। फिर अगला

जो जल्दी दूसरों से प्रभावित हो जाते हों || आचार्य प्रशांत (2018)
जो जल्दी दूसरों से प्रभावित हो जाते हों || आचार्य प्रशांत (2018)
6 min

आचार्य प्रशांत: (प्रश्नकर्ता का प्रश्न पढ़ते हुए) आचार्य जी! मैं लोगों से बहुत जल्दी प्रभावित हो जाता हूँ। किसी की बात से या किसी ने कहा कि देश के लिए कुछ करना चाहिए तो बात ठीक लगती है। किसी ने कहा गरीबों की मदद करो, तो मान लेता हूँ। पर

जब ज़िन्दगी दोराहे पर खड़ा कर दे || आचार्य प्रशांत के नीम लड्डू
जब ज़िन्दगी दोराहे पर खड़ा कर दे || आचार्य प्रशांत के नीम लड्डू
4 min

आचार्य प्रशांत: जब भी कभी मन में ये प्रश्न आये कि आचार्य जी क्या करूँ, किसी भी सन्दर्भ में जब ये प्रश्न आये, ठीक है? वो किस्सा कुछ भी हो सकता है। वो ये भी हो सकता है कि पुरानी गाड़ी अब हटाकर नयी गाड़ी लेनी है। वो ये भी

न संदेह न संशय || आचार्य प्रशांत, ऋभुगीता पर (2014)
न संदेह न संशय || आचार्य प्रशांत, ऋभुगीता पर (2014)
12 min

सर्वभावं न सन्देह : सर्वं नास्ति न संशय:। सर्वं तुच्छं न सन्देह : सर्वं माया न संशय:।।

All is thought. There is no doubt of this. All is not. And there is no doubt of this. All is trifling. And there is no doubt of this. All is illusion. And

What is absent mindedness?
What is absent mindedness?
1 min

Question: What is absent mindedness?Answer: Absent mindedness is mind being anywhere. Whenever you are occupied with anything, it is absent mindedness. Any act of focus, concentration, having ‘something’ as important in mind, becoming a subject,all these are acts of absent-mindedness. Mind busy with any object is absent-mindedness.

Mind busy

And the show stops || Neem Candies
And the show stops || Neem Candies
1 min

You are fantasizing: “When I meet that man, such and such great things will happen. And now we are having coffee, and now we are watching the movie, and the movie is wonderful”—and the entire three-hour movie you are visualizing.

What is at the basis of this entire fantasy? That

The body is not born for honesty || Neem Candies
The body is not born for honesty || Neem Candies
1 min

Your action has to be one with the Truth. Let wisdom guide your action. That’s Yoga of Wisdom. What is the other kind of action? Prescribed action.

Each of us, in each moment, has to make this choice. Where is your action going to come from? Is it going to

Don’t be alright with your weaknesses || Neem Candies
Don’t be alright with your weaknesses || Neem Candies
1 min

Strength is your nature. If you have managed to remain so weak, so fragile, so brittle for so long, it is only because you have been defending your weaknesses. You have been arguing in favor of your weaknesses; you have been reasoning out your weaknesses. You have simply not been

Are you really fine? ||Neem Candies
Are you really fine? ||Neem Candies
1 min

There are people who indeed say that, “No, everything is fine with us.” They are not lying. It’s just that their fineness is superficial.Yes, there is fineness in your life, but that fineness is just this deep: scratch the surface and the fineness will evaporate. A little tragedy hits you

To know your real responsibility, know who you really are || IIT Kharagpur (2022)
To know your real responsibility, know who you really are || IIT Kharagpur (2022)
17 min

Questioner (Q): We encounter these nodes in the path of our lives where we have to make decisions. The majority of us have a lot of duties associated with our life, and these duties also come with some demands associated with how we must act. For example, right now I

How to get out of the stories in one's head? || Acharya Prashant (2019)
How to get out of the stories in one's head? || Acharya Prashant (2019)
4 min

Question: If one lives in stories, the stories that are conversations with oneself, how does one get out of them?

Acharya Prashant Ji: Check! Check!

All your stories are about objects in the universe. Your stories have no fresh elements at all. All the actors, all the players, all the

This chemical existence || Neem Candies
This chemical existence || Neem Candies
1 min

A certain word falls upon your ears and there is an instant reaction, is there not? Your entire body can get heated up. One word falling on your ears can raise your temperature by two degrees within two minutes. Is it not a chemical reaction?

This body is a bunch

Rape of the mind || Neem Candies
Rape of the mind || Neem Candies
1 min

I’ll tell you what the rape of the mind is. When the mind has nonsensical purposes, that is rape of the mind. When things like stuff that happened in the childhood or teenage attracts you and dominates you, then the mind is being raped. Forgive me the clichéd expression, but

Alright—almost || Neem Candies
Alright—almost || Neem Candies
1 min

Were our bodies to reflect accurately and honestly the state of our minds, none of us would have been able to walk firmly even for a distance of ten meters. Our legs would have shown up as cut, wounded, bruised, fractured the way, exactly the way our mind is.

Unfortunately,

Impossible situation? Good! || Neem Candies
Impossible situation? Good! || Neem Candies
1 min

Even in those situations that we call as utterly woeful, utterly hopeless, if we just do that which we are capable of doing, would there be space and opportunity and time to despair? If you do what you must, where is the time to suffer?

In fact, the more impossibly

Gynaecology is psychology ||Neem Candies
Gynaecology is psychology ||Neem Candies
1 min

Gynaecology is psychology. Where else does the whole thing come from? And it’s not as if I am talking exclusively of women; with the men it’s just the same.

This entire body is just genitals expressing themselves in various forms. One part of genitals you call as genitals; the other

Crying for plum cake?  || Neem Candies
Crying for plum cake? || Neem Candies
1 min

As long as you are living a socially adjusted and internally compromised life, as long as you are living resigned to your limitations, even your agony is limited. There won’t be much even in your sadness. You will cry for a while and then the moment somebody shows you some

Choices are a sign of confusion || Acharya Prashant, with youth (2013)
Choices are a sign of confusion || Acharya Prashant, with youth (2013)
3 min

Questioner: Sir, it is told to us that options create confusion in one’s life. But wherever we go, whatever we want to do, we have to search for options. Why?

Acharya Prashant: The question, rather this statement has to be clearly understood.

‘Options create confusion.’

What it means is that

To know why a man and a woman are in conflict is to know why world is in conflict || Acharya Prashant (2016)
To know why a man and a woman are in conflict is to know why world is in conflict || Acharya Prashant (2016)
29 min

Question: I want to know why the world is at the moment so harsh?

Acharya Prashant: There is nothing that one group, one community or one person experiences that the other has never experienced or is not experiencing even to the slightest degree. Fundamentally we are all one. As human

Love: of condoms and abortions kind ||Neem Candies
Love: of condoms and abortions kind ||Neem Candies
1 min

Look at the stats released by the Durex company; it manufactures condoms. In the Valentine’s Day week, sales of condoms spike by twenty to thirty percent. And then there are the stats available from the medical organizations: March is the peak month for termination of pregnancy.

So, love is not

The real meaning of help || IIT Kharagpur (2022)
The real meaning of help || IIT Kharagpur (2022)
19 min

Questioner (Q): I have discovered that being a little altruistic, a little selfless makes me feel that I am elevating my consciousness. That is what works for me. But one problem associated with this is the problem of the violation of boundaries. So, suppose I want to help a person

You are such a good actor! || Neem Candies
You are such a good actor! || Neem Candies
1 min

We are brilliant artists—makeup artists. We are adept in calling false happiness as happiness. We pretend to be happy when we are not even happy, and all of us know fully well what I am talking of. Go to your social media pages and you will see what we are

Liberation, confusion, cognitive dissonance || Acharya Prashant (2019)
Liberation, confusion, cognitive dissonance || Acharya Prashant (2019)
3 min

Question: Acharya Ji, if Liberation is the ultimate destiny, why don’t we get it naturally?

Acharya Prashant Ji: Liberation is Freedom, right? Liberation is Freedom. So you are free to not to be free. You are already Liberated.

It is because you are Liberated, that you can choose to remain

Why do we indulge in self-harm? || IIT Kharagpur (2021)
Why do we indulge in self-harm? || IIT Kharagpur (2021)
9 min

Questioner (Q): In spite of being fully aware of the consequences, why do people engage in self-harming behavior? Why do people stay in toxic marriages, relationships, friendships, get into addictions, do substance abuse, or get into other miscellaneous self-harming activities?

Acharya Prashant (AP): See, nobody engages in self-harm knowing fully

You are so nice! || Neem Candies
You are so nice! || Neem Candies
2 min

You want the other person to be nice. We are such idiots. We want the other person to be nice. And if the other person is not nice, we feel there is no love. We do not understand anything. We are prepared to give up our life probably when somebody

Pain-free life ||Neem Candies
Pain-free life ||Neem Candies
1 min

Pain is due and legitimate. You will have pain. Now live through it like a man.

What is suffering? Suffering comes only when you start espousing the flawed concept that life must be pain-free. When you start feeding that concept, when you start nourishing and identifying with that concept that

Remember your old self? ||Neem Candies
Remember your old self? ||Neem Candies
1 min

You might be twenty-five today; where is the one who was twenty yesterday? Isn’t he gone? How can you stop the other from departing when you couldn’t prevent even your own old self from departing?

Remember your old self, the one that was there at the age of five, ten,

Feeling powerless? || Neem Candies
Feeling powerless? || Neem Candies
1 min

All powerlessness is just a pretense. Even in your feeblest moment, you are still powerful enough to exercise choice, and you must always hold this very close to your heart.

The world can take anything, everything away from you, but nothing and nobody ever can take away from you your