Decision-Making Made Easy
Acharya Prashant: Decision-making is such a problem with most people, whereas decision-making should not be needed at all. One should not be required to make a choice at all. Clarity makes the entire process of making a choice very redundant. If you know who you are and what you want, if you have that clarity, why will you require to spend time thinking about the choice to make? If you are someone who remains confused in the hour of the choice, then you should know that the confusion is not about that choice in particular. The confusion is arising due to an inner darkness.
You say you don't know how to prioritize between work and your family, but what is it that you want in life? What is your situation like? What is your inner incompleteness all about? What is the direction you must proceed in? If proceeding in that direction requires you to work and work hard then obviously you will work. Whereas if your chief inner angst pertains to relationships or love, then it should be clear to you that you would rather spend time with a few related persons. At least for a certain period. Then the question of the money. "Must I spend or save?" But what do you need money for, first of all? Why must you have even one rupee if you don't need that rupee? And if you have a worthwhile purpose that requires you to have fifty crores, why must you not intensively labour to accumulate those fifty crores? Your inner requirement could be of one rupee or fifty crores, only you can know, and that inner requirement does not pertain to greed or the urge to consume. Pandit Madan Mohan Malviya has a university to raise, and he went around the entire country collecting donations. He, too, was accumulating money. He had a higher purpose in mind. What do you need money for? What purpose do you have in life? If you indeed do have a higher purpose in life, then, by all means, accumulate money.
Whereas if saving has become just a means to fend off your insecurity, you do not even know what you will do with the saved money, then saving is just a burden. Similarly, spending, when you spend money, you get something in lieu of your money right. You spend money to get something. What are you spending your money towards? What do you want to get? Or are you spending money just because you have money? Something that many people do. Have money, blow it away.
Money has come to you by the dint of your struggle and sweat. What are you doing with that money? Where are you spending it and why? These are the questions to be asked. So priorities, choices, decisions in life they all become clear when you are in touch with your inner self or inner mind, then you have a great clarity as to who you are and therefore what you need then you do not waste your time and resources, running after stuff that won't be useful to you.
What's that next piece of furniture going to give you? Ask yourself. What's that new and next car going to fetch you? Ask yourself. Maybe it would give you something tremendously important, then go ahead and proceed and buy that car, purchase it. But if you find that there is not much really that the next piece of furniture or the next vehicle can bring you. There is no need to think any further. There is no need to invest yourself in this futile process of choosing. Have clarity, and clarity begets choicelessness. It is a beautiful state to be in where you can smoothly proceed with life without having to pause and brood. And go through the painful process of choosing one thing versus rejecting other thing.
