
प्रश्नकर्ता: आचार्य जी, कई सालों से अध्यात्म के साथ हूंँ, लेकिन फिर भी एक खालीपन महसूस होता रहता है, इससे बाहर कैसे निकलूंँ? कृपया मार्गदर्शन कीजिए।
आचार्य प्रशांत: मैं आपको इतना बताए देता हूंँ कि खेल बिलकुल आपके हाथ में है। बात यहांँ ग्रह-नक्षत्रों, चांँद-तारों की बिलकुल नहीं है कि…


Acharya Prashant: Whatever you are doing, there has to be honesty in that. What is important is that you do not say one thing and do another thing. If you look at the great scientific discoveries or inventions, the scientist or the explorer would be busy in his chosen area


So, in your day-to-day life, practically, obviously, you will have these goals—you have to go to your workplace, you have to go to this thing, that thing—fine, those goals are there. But you have to remember that, ultimately, going to your workplace yields you nothing—maybe financial or physical sustenance, that's all. So the illusion of meaning has to be destroyed. The ego will otherwise keep looking for meaning where there can be no meaning—and in that lies a lot of suffering.

आचार्य प्रशांत: सही लक्ष्य क्या होता है? सही लक्ष्य वो होता है जो आपके भीतर की कमज़ोरियों को तोड़े। आपके भीतर जो कुछ ऐसा है कि ख़त्म होना चाहिए, लक्ष्य बनाओ जो उसे ख़त्म ही कर दे। मेरे ख़याल से कार्ल जंग का है — या आप लोग जाँच लीजिएगा…














What is the punishment of having a wrong goal? What is the punishment? You will suffer. And if you keep having one wrong goal after the other, your suffering will keep compounding, so you will be forced to give up your false goals.



Acharya Prashant: If I am incomplete, then sitting where I am, what would be the quality of my actions, thoughts, and imagination? They, too, would be of an incomplete nature.

Questioner: Sir, I am pursuing MSc in physics. After watching your videos and reading the Bhagavat Gita, I understand that whatever in this world we achieve to please ourselves does not really give us peace. I also find that doing science might be just pleasing myself or my ego. It

ये खेल ऐसा है जिसमें ये नहीं देखा जाता कि किसने अंक ज़्यादा बनाये, इसमें ये देखा जाता है कि अन्त तक डटा कौन रहा, आख़िरी घड़ी तक खड़ा कौन रहा। इसमें बात ये नहीं है कि कौन कितना तेज़ दौड़ा, कहाँ तक पहुँच गया, इसमें बस बात ये है कि कौन मैदान छोड़कर भाग नहीं गया। जो मैदान छोड़कर नहीं भागा, वो जीत गया। ये नियम है इस खेल का। इसमें हार सिर्फ़ एक तरीक़े से होती है कि तुम मैदान छोड़ दो, *नॉक आउट* (पराजित) अपनेआप को घोषित कर दो कि भैया मेरा हो गया!


Questioner: Good afternoon and Jai Hind sir. My question to you is that people define success by different terms like influence, happiness, fame, name, etc. So, sir when did you start considering yourself success?


Question : There is a state the other is in, there is a state that I think the other is in, there is a state the other thinks that I am in. What is then an appropriate action?

Questioner (Q): My question is related to failures. I’ve been a very positive-minded person, and I’ve been trying my best to do everything that I can, give my best in everything; but I’m disappointed with myself - not disappointed with others - but with myself. Now, I feel that there’ve

Before you excel, ask yourself, “What must I excel in? What is worth it?” Before you speed down a road, ask yourself, “Which road to take?” Speed comes later; choice of the right road comes first.


All the expanse of discipline is built upon the foundation of the goal. The goal comes first.

Don’t take life advice from uncles and aunts and models and celebrities. Don’t let cricketers tell you what kind of house to live in.

What is the nature of a gymnasium? The gymnasium only gives you obstacles. Have you ever noticed? You want to raise something—what is the gymnasium giving you? Weights, and weights are obstacles against the rise. The gymnasium really does not support you, it actually obstructs you.

आचार्य प्रशांत: वह तो आप पर निर्भर करता है न। अगर बिलकुल खरी बात पूछेंगे तो जीवन को किसी लक्ष्य कि ज़रूरत ही नहीं है। पर वह इतनी…
Questioner (Q): Good evening, sir. In many places, especially in college, it is seen that the person starts drinking or smoking just because of peer pressure because he has a fear that if he doesn't do this, his group will throw him out. So, what are your views regarding this…
प्रश्नकर्ता: 'मैं ये नहीं हूँ' ये बात मुझे मन के तल पर तो समझ में आ गयी है, लेकिन ये मेरे जीवन में कैसे उतरे?
आचार्य प्रशांत: 'मैं नहीं' एक निगेशन (नकार) है। वो निगेशन किसी चीज़़ का ही हो सकता है, कुछ होगा तभी तो उसे निगेट करेंगे। जैसे…
बार-बार लक्ष्य छोड़ देने का कारण इच्छाशक्ति की कमी नहीं, बल्कि गलत और उधार लिए हुए लक्ष्य हैं। जिन उद्देश्यों का जन्म प्रेम, समझ और आत्मबोध से नहीं होता, वे बोझ बन जाते हैं। सही लक्ष्य भीतर की स्पष्टता से निकलता है और वही व्यक्ति को स्वाभाविक समर्पण देता है। इसलिए प्रेरणा खोजने से पहले स्वयं को जानना, आत्म-अवलोकन करना और यह समझना ज़रूरी है कि वास्तव में हमारे लिए क्या मूल्यवान है।
True dedication does not feel like painful sacrifice. When a goal becomes love, unnecessary distractions quietly lose importance instead of being forcefully abandoned. Personal growth and contribution to society are not separate; meaningful work naturally benefits both oneself and others. Real freedom is not outward performance but inner clarity. Life should be measured by inner elevation, not by comparison with others’ achievements.
Struggling to choose between a secure job and the path you actually feel drawn to? This isn't really a question about careers. It's about why other people's opinions have so much power over you in the first place. Real clarity doesn't come from finding the 'right' choice. It comes from honestly looking at your own fear, again and again, until it stops running the decision for you.
Procrastination is nothing but the postponement of misery. ‘If I do it right now, I will feel miserable.’ So I try to escape by sending the thing into the future. But if I loved what I did, would I still procrastinate? After all, one never delays love.
मूलभूत शिक्षा लेनी ज़रूरी होती है। कुछ बातें हैं दुनिया की, जो नहीं पता होंगी तो पूरे इंसान भी नहीं बन पाओगे। विद्या-अविद्या दोनों चाहिए। अविद्या माने सांसारिक भौतिक शिक्षा और विद्या माने आध्यात्मिक शिक्षा। उपनिषद् कहते हैं, जिनके पास विद्या नहीं होती, वो गहरे कुएँ में गिरते हैं। लेकिन जिनके पास सांसारिक ज्ञान नहीं होता वो और ज़्यादा गहरे कुएँ में गिरते हैं। और जिनके पास दोनों हैं, वो मृत्यु को पार करके अमर हो जाते हैं।
Be in love with your work and give it just everything that you have. The quality of the relationship must be so high that you are left choiceless in attending to it. Once you have given it all that you have, you will be left with very little time, space, or energy to bother about the result. “I gave everything that I had; now it is difficult to differentiate between defeat and victory.” Live so intensely that, in the end, you are left with no energy to be concerned with the result.
Those who work towards 'an end' find that they are defeated both in the work and in achieving 'the end' because even if they somehow manage to reach that end, they find that it's not really what they wanted. So, they proceed to the next destination; this is a vicious cycle. On the other hand, those who work because the work itself is a celebration, they win doubly because the work itself is the end, and they celebrate all the way to success.
By all means, have goals. But the goal should not be more important than the game itself. If there is any meaning, the meaning is in the game. The goal might be achieved in the process of the game—fine. But the meaning does not lie in the goal. The meaning lies in the game. Play with abandon. You’ll forget to count the number of goals. Somebody will have to draw your attention towards the scoreboard. "I got so much into the game, I lost count of goals." This is not some impractical, utopian fiction. This is what the greats have lived by. This is the very substance of greatness.
A worthy motive would always have something to do with your current condition. It would either be something that gives you joy, or it would be something that gives you liberation. And even these two, after a point, you will see, are identical. It would either be something that gives you unconditional joy—purposeless joy. It is something you can do without getting any reward. If there is something that attracts you this way, then it's fit to be your goal.
If you choose a goal that's not worthy, you'll try hard to concentrate on it, but you'll invariably get distracted. That's not because the distractions are powerful; it's because your goal is powerless. If your goal offers you unconditional joy or leads to your freedom and liberation, you will never be distracted.
हमारे लक्ष्य हमारे नहीं होते इसीलिए हमारे कोई लक्ष्य पूरे नहीं होते। किसी भी लक्ष्य की ज़िम्मेदारी तुम तभी उठा पाओगे जब वो तुम्हारे ह्रदय से आया हो। जो तुम्हारे ह्रदय से नहीं आया उसकी ज़िम्मेदारी उठाओगे तो बोझ लगेगी। सही लक्ष्य प्रेम प्रसंग की तरह होता है, वो पकड़ लेता है। आप उसे छोड़ना चाहोगे, पर वो आपको नहीं छोड़ेगा। खुद को देखो, अपनी हालत देखो और दर्पण जैसे लोगों के साथ समय गुज़ारो, फिर सही लक्ष्य निर्धारित कर पाओगे और समर्पित रह पाओगे।
Choose the goal extremely wisely and then it does not matter whether you are failing or succeeding or what. Obviously, you do not want to keep failing continuously. So, you look at the process of living, the process through which you wanted to move towards whatever you chose. And then you make continuous improvements in the process. But all this talk of improvement and everything make sense only if, first of all, the goal is right.
A goal that is too far away in time is a false goal. The goal has to be extremely immediate. By having a false goal, you give yourself the luxury of not doing the right thing right now. By placing your goal five years into the future, you have given yourself the freedom— the false freedom— to do any random stuff right now.
Questioner: Acharya Ji, which direction to take in life?
Acharya Prashant: What is it, that matters to you?
The direction in which you must go is determined by where you will feel the pain.
And if you feel no pain, no discomfort, why must you go in any direction?
You…
And if you are not forced to…
'Laziness' is an unnecessary pejorative. You’re imposing morality on Prakriti (physical nature) and calling it laziness. There’s nothing called laziness. In nature, there’s a tendency towards work minimization, which is logical—get maximum output with minimum effort. You view it through a moral lens and call it laziness. If something gives more output with less work, you’ll choose it. You call it laziness, but it’s simply efficiency. You calculate the pleasure-to-effort ratio, and if lying in bed offers more pleasure than working out, you’ll naturally choose the bed.
Questioner: Acharyaji, my question is that the greed of getting more and more pleasure is increasing with time, and finally I’m finding myself getting stuck in the vicious circle of getting more and more pleasure. Sir, what are the ways that you could suggest to me to get out of…
So, incompleteness is projecting more incompleteness for itself and then trying with all its might to reach more incompleteness. How…
Work. Where is the time to devote to anxiety? Where is the space to be anxious? If you are anxious about something, that thing is obviously important to you. Else you wouldn’t be anxious and if that thing is important, work. Work for that thing. The thing is not only important but also stands incomplete. That’s the reason you are anxious. Correct? If it stands incomplete, work, bring it to completion. Somebody said action is the antidote to despair. Action. Don’t just sit and brood, work. And life will become intolerable if you are not a worker.
प्रश्नकर्ता: मैं एक मध्यम वर्गीय परिवार से हूँ और बचपन से ही बहुत कम महत्वाकांक्षी रहा हूँ। खेल-खेल में ही मैंने जेईई का एग्ज़ाम क्रैक किया (परीक्षा उत्तीर्ण की) और आइआइटी खड़गपुर में इलेक्ट्रॉनिक्स इंजीनियरिंग (अभियान्त्रिकी) करने का मौका मिला।
इंजीनियरिंग के दूसरे वर्ष में ट्रैकिंग (पर्वतारोहण) करने का मौका…
Acharya Prashant: How to get success in whatever I do? The questioner says, “How do I get success in whatever I do?” Success does not lie in doing any random thing. That’s the first, the most important and, probably, the last thing. The game is not at all about picking…
Acharya Prashant: First of all, thanks for inviting me here. I don't consider myself a success…
Death is a point in time, right. That’s what you call the incidence of death. And life you call a stretch in time. Isn’t time an opportunity then, for change, real change? Time is anyway defined as change in space. Isn’t time also an opportunity for genuine change? Before time ends for the physical organism and the moment of death arrives. Isn’t time an opportunity to move into the timeless? And if one hasn’t done that before his physical death. Hasn’t he just wasted his life?
Speaker : When one is in a mental state, it is never…
Speaker : How is it possible that two-hundred students sitting here, two hundred individuals sitting here, have the same goal in…
प्रश्नकर्ता: सर, प्रणाम! आपका पुराना छात्र हूँ। दो-हज़ार-दस से आपको सुन रहा हूँ, देख रहा हूँ। आप नहीं बदले, सब बदल गया। ज़माना बदल गया! आपके भीतर इतना जज़्बा आता कहाँ से है?
आचार्य प्रशांत: मुझे तो नहीं पता चलता कि मुझमें कोई जज़्बा है। तुमने कहा, ‘इतना जज़्बा! विशेष…
It is far better to be slow on the right road than to be…
Questioner (Q): Acharya Ji, you often talk about the importance of time, and that is something that bothers me in the context of my career. I don’t know if I should continue in my current job or not. I took the job for very ordinary reasons: money and position in…
Questioner: Acharya Ji, it is a question about selfless goals. I have not understood ‘goals’ yet. The freedom fighters, social workers, humanitarians are all working tirelessly to achieve something. What’s my responsibility towards country, people, and religion? For example, our culture and tradition need to be preserved. Is it not…
Intention, goal, purpose, desire, clinging, attachment, attraction—none of these are bad, provided they are towards the right object, right end. Please be attached, please be greatly attached, please be desirous, please feel the attraction, the pull towards liberation, towards Truth.
It is not for nothing that your mind is vested…
Speaker: I go jogging in the morning and I don’t really enjoy it. It is lot of hard work for me. There is a colleague who goes along with…
Your mom is beautiful, great, good, lovely. Is she the right person to tell you of so many other things in life? Please avoid. Does your…
The world is anyway…
Entrepreneurship is about initiating something, right? Doing something, beginning something. Before you become a good entrepreneur, must you not ask what is worth doing? Or is entrepreneurship merely about collecting profits rather than salaries? To many people,…