Truth cannot be forced upon anyone, but neither should falsehood be entertained. Genuine love is not about preserving relationships at any cost; it is about helping oneself and others break free from illusion, even if that means risking the relationship itself. Spiritual growth begins by questioning conditioning, examining falsehood without bias, and choosing authenticity over comfort. Real relationships are built on the courage to seek freedom, not convenience.
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Questioner: Hello sir, I’m Yash. I read one of your quotes, “If you want to test a relationship, if you want to test the quality of your company, start talking real stuff with them or just start blocking the nonsense.”
In most of my life, whenever I’ve had discussions or conversations with anyone, whenever there’s a surface-level discussion or something that is not diving deep, or something related to lies, then everyone wants to pitch in, to give their own opinions, own beliefs. But whenever I start to put facts on the table, try to put the truth on the table, or question them, the discussion stops. They don’t want to pursue it further.
A recent example of this is with my own parents. They are very workaholics. Whenever I try to tell them about their health issue, focus more on it, they try to avoid the discussion, “We’ll talk about this at a different date,” for example. And then that date never comes.
So in that case, there’s no discussion. I’m not able to have a proper, deep conversation with someone with whom I have or supposedly have a relationship, if I believe in. And if I try to sugarcoat something and have a discussion, they do listen to me, but it doesn’t feel as deep enough as a proper conversation, which we might have now. So how do I go about this problem?
