If you are someone who is a serial relater—one relationship after the other or several relationships at a time, whatever, it is one and the same thing really—you must tell yourself that you really have not a physical but a spiritual urge. And therefore, you should stop your mad, nonsensical method of looking for the ultimate in some man or woman. You will not get it there.
You will have to find it using other means. You will have to find it in wisdom literature. You will have to find it in a deep understanding of life. You will find it in a love that is far more inclusive.