Both the genders have become even more anchored to their physical identity. The more you do that, the more you are in misery because, really, the body is not who you are.
There are places better and higher than the place of your gender specific hormones. Why do you want to give up on that higher place? You are not to suppress your gender; you are to transcend it.
You don’t set a wise goal for yourself, and the body will happily fill in the space. The body will say, “Well, you have nothing else to do. So, be my slave then!”