Nobody can help you in the entire world if first of all you don’t like, or respect, or love yourself. What is the point in admiring a great personality if first of all you cannot admire yourself? And most people become admirers or fans because, firstly, they don’t admire themselves. That’s loneliness.
The one relationship that is of maximum importance is the one you have with yourself. Be alright with yourself. Only then will you be able to have healthy and beautiful relationships with others.
Once I had said, “Be your own fan.” Dig up that quote!