When I say that your love has to include even animals and plants and ecologies, do I mean that your love would exclude women, or that a woman’s love will exclude men? Obviously not. But then, this is pathological—sticking to a woman or sticking to a man, inwardly aiming for his or her genitals. This is sick. It stings. And when you are fed up with one set of genitals, then you hunt for another set. Makes no sense, bears no fruit.
There are beautiful ways of relating to men, relating to women. Relate with them in higher ways; relate to them in higher ways.