Most of us do not have a good relationship with ourselves. We say we want good relations with others, but firstly we do not have a good relationship with ourselves. If I don’t have a good relationship with myself, how can I have a good relationship with others?
To put it simply, to love the other is to have a healthy relationship with the other. And for the mind to have a healthy relationship with the other, first of all the mind must be healthy in itself.
How can I have a healthy relationship with you if I am not healthy?
How can the relationship be healthy when the mind in the relationship is not healthy?
Is it possible that the mind is diseased but the relationship is healthy? Is it possible?
Do you get what love is now? A healthy mind. The relationships of a healthy mind are called love. The relationships of a healthy mind are loving relationships. Isn’t it so simple? It is not complicated. It is not something that you can never understand.
