How do you relate to the other? || Neem Candies

Acharya Prashant
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How do you relate to the other? || Neem Candies

I understand, we live in a society, we are related to each other, we will have something to do with the other. You will always have some relationship with the other. But why can’t that relationship be on healthier grounds? Why must the two be related because they appreciate each other’s bodies?

And when I say that, I do not mean that sculpted bodies are not advisable. Obviously, both men and women should have perfectly fit bodies. But then, relating to the other merely by advertising your body is no good.

This article has been created by volunteers of the PrashantAdvait Foundation from transcriptions of sessions by Acharya Prashant
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