What questions should I ask to myself when I am going towards a new fantasy?

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Surya ji, good that you are asking, but notice the shape of the question itself. You are asking for a checklist, a fixed set of questions to run before chasing the next fantasy. That is still the mind wanting a formula it can apply once and be done with, a technique rather than an honest look. There is really only one question worth asking each time, and it does not change: what exactly do I think will be different inside me once I get there. Sit with that answer, not the next fantasy, and watch how quickly it falls apart on its own.