Acharya Prashant explains that one cannot truly come close to something or someone unless they value what that person stands for. The ego lives in attraction and operates through a value system that is often contrary to the truth. If your value system prioritizes social conduct, possessiveness, or control, you will find it impossible to love a person who does not conform to these standards. Attempting to force closeness through a logical decision or mental effort will only lead to a split within oneself, as the ego remains centered in its own world while trying to reach for something entirely different.
