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बच्चों को बचाएँ इनसे || आचार्य प्रशांत, वेदांत महोत्सव ऋषिकेश में (2022)
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Parenting
Sanskars
Conditioning
Single Parent
Childhood Development
Consciousness
Awakening
Values
Description

Acharya Prashant addresses a single parent's concern about raising and instilling values in her young daughter. He suggests that being a single parent can actually be an advantage, as a child is often overwhelmed and negatively influenced by a large family circle where everyone tries to impose their own conflicting behaviors. He explains that children are highly observant and learn from the subtle, often hypocritical actions of the adults around them, such as a relative's ulterior motives or a parent's inconsistent emotional reactions. These small, daily interactions in the household and marketplace are where the real battle for a child's consciousness is won or lost. He emphasizes that while 'Sanskars' or values are necessary like medicine for innate tendencies, they must be administered by someone qualified and awakened. He notes that by the age of seventeen, a person's conditioning is often so deep-seated that change becomes nearly impossible, highlighting that the most critical damage occurs in early childhood. Acharya Prashant advises the mother that she does not need a large family for good upbringing; rather, she must protect the child from the negative influences of 'polluted' people. He concludes that the greatest service a parent can provide is to remain conscious and avoid imposing their own ignorance on the child, questioning their own authority before attempting to mold the child's consciousness.