Acharya Prashant explains that if there is one thing that turns your life into hell, it is a personal relationship, one in which you whisper to the other. He states that the reason for whispering is the desire to keep the rest of the world out. This exclusivity is described with examples like "sweet little secrets," bundled love letters, and deleted WhatsApp chats. He warns that if you find yourself in the middle of such things, you are in the middle of hell. Although it may appear attractive in the beginning, these signs warrant great caution. The speaker finds it incomprehensible how loving and doting mothers can have very little care or sympathy for the foodless, clotheless, and shivering children in their vicinity. He points out the irony of celebrating love at weddings with the slaughter of animals, noting that the bigger the celebration, the gorier the slaughter. This demonstrates how love is often strictly limited to a few people, and the irony of this limited love multiplies. He provides a detailed example of a government employee in the Public Works Department who would loot government money out of love for his family. This man needed to collect money for his daughter's dowry and to purchase a donation seat at a medical college for his son. The money for this was taken from funds earmarked for road construction and maintenance. This particular road, the speaker notes, was notorious for killing youth. This neglect had severe consequences. Over a few years, no less than one or two hundred young people lost their lives on that road, all so that the man's own son and daughter could be "loved." The speaker clarifies that this is not just about drawing a limit to one's love; it is about being actively hostile and inimical towards everyone outside that limit to serve those inside. This is what he defines as normal, egocentric love: slaughtering the lamb to feed your own child some lamb soup.