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भय और लोभ भारी पड़ते हैं प्रेम पर || आचार्य प्रशांत (2019)
आचार्य प्रशांत
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Guilt
Decision Making
Love
Compulsion
Body Identification
Consciousness
Priorities
Freedom
Description

Acharya Prashant addresses a woman's guilt regarding her decision to prioritize her job over staying with her terminally ill father during his final days. He explains that her distress does not stem from a single wrong decision, but from the fundamental way she has structured her life. He argues that her choice was not truly free; it was a result of living a life bound by compulsions and dependencies. He points out that if she truly had the freedom to choose, she would have stayed, but her practical reality was dictated by the need for security and employment. This incident merely highlighted a pre-existing pattern where material needs and bodily comforts are prioritized over love. He further explains that this conflict between 'the stomach' (physical survival and comfort) and 'love' is a daily occurrence, not a one-time mistake. Because she is habituated to giving precedence to her job and financial security for 364 days a year, she naturally made the same choice on the 365th day. He notes that she only regrets the decision now because of its irreversible outcome—her father's death—rather than recognizing the flawed nature of the decision-making process itself. He emphasizes that as long as one identifies primarily with the body, they will remain enslaved to their jobs and bosses for survival, causing love to always take a backseat. He concludes by urging her to realize that she is not merely a physical body but an unfulfilled consciousness seeking satisfaction that material pursuits can never provide.