Acharya Prashant addresses the questioner's predicament by first looking at the situation practically. He explains that her problem is not in the immediate moment but arises from her compulsion to return to a painful situation, which is driven by deep-seated insecurity. This insecurity, he states, is a learned conditioning from society and family, making her believe she needs the support of a husband and family to survive. He questions why she would choose to move from a state of no problem to a state of problems, identifying her own insecurity as the real issue. If the fear of not having a home or family support were not in her mind, she would not feel compelled to go back. As a practical solution, Acharya Prashant advises the questioner to first become financially independent by getting a job. This, he says, is the first step towards self-reliance, which will grant her the freedom to live on her own terms and experiment with living alone. He emphasizes that living alone has its own responsibilities but also its own joys. He encourages her to challenge the conditioned beliefs that she is weak, helpless, and dependent. He suggests that she must stop inviting suffering into her life by ceasing to give importance to futile things. Regarding the concepts of destiny and karma, Acharya Prashant refutes the idea that suffering is anyone's destiny, calling it unnatural. He explains that astrological predictions are based on existing patterns; if one continues to live by the same conditionings (sanskars), the outcome is predictable. However, one is not bound by these patterns. He asserts that the ultimate destiny of every being is liberation from suffering and the attainment of bliss. Truth is the final destiny, and it is never unpleasant. He further clarifies that while the desire for a happy relationship is not wrong, it cannot be fulfilled when it stems from a place of fear and insecurity. An insecure person cannot have a happy relationship because the desire itself is coming from a flawed place. The focus, therefore, should be on becoming fully self-reliant, both financially and psychologically. Once she is self-reliant and free from fear, she will find many companions and relationships based on love and friendship, not dependence.