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Love is not... || Acharya Prashant, with youth (2013)
Acharya Prashant
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13 years ago
Love
Joy
Aloneness
Loneliness
Intelligence
Relationship
Freedom
Truth
Description

Acharya Prashant clarifies that common perceptions of love, such as possessiveness, sexual attraction, jealousy, and the desire for marriage, are not true love. He explains that missing someone or seeking a relationship to fill a void of loneliness is not love. Instead, love is a state of one's own mind characterized by intelligence, joy, and completeness. It is an internal condition where one does not feel incomplete or in need of another person to provide fulfillment. He contrasts this with typical relationships that act like chemical bonds, where individuals seek to satisfy their own deficiencies through another person. He emphasizes that true love is synonymous with aloneness and inner joy. It is not triggered by an external object or person, such as a magnet attracting iron; rather, it is a state of being that reflects in everything one does, whether reading, eating, or interacting with others. Acharya Prashant critiques the romanticized versions of love portrayed in cinema and popular culture, suggesting that these depictions are often just biological impulses labeled as love. He concludes that by understanding what love is not, one can remove the false and make room for the authentic, leading to a life that is truly filled with love rather than just labels.