Acharya Prashant addresses the common feeling of being manipulated or dominated by society, noting that this often leads to a desire to break away or escape. He explains that these two extremesâbeing a slave to society or trying to get rid of itâare part of the same unhealthy duality. Escaping is not a viable solution because society exists within one's own mind and thoughts; wherever one goes, they carry their mental conditioning with them. A healthy relationship cannot be born out of a reaction to an unhealthy one, and running away from problems like corruption or oppression is merely a mirage that never leads to true freedom. True strength and intelligence lie in retaining one's individuality while remaining in the middle of society. Acharya Prashant emphasizes that a brave person stays put and remains untouched by external storms through internal strength and stillness. He argues that we become miserable and easily shaken when we derive our self-worth and identity from the outside. By becoming self-sufficient and not depending on others for validation, one can remain firm and secure regardless of external disturbances. He clarifies that while technical or professional dependencies are normal, psychological dependency for self-image leads to sickness. He further explains that manipulation and exploitation only happen with one's own direct or indirect permission. People often trade their freedom for small things like money, security, or attention because they mistakenly believe they are needy. Acharya Prashant compares this to a billionaire who begs because he has forgotten the riches in his own pocket. To have healthy relationships based on love and intelligence rather than attachment and possessiveness, one must realize their inherent completeness. Only a free, self-sufficient individual who can stand alone is capable of experiencing true joy and love.
