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रिश्ते जल्दी बनाओ मत, जब बनाओ तो निभाओ || आचार्य प्रशांत (2022)
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Fundamental Agreement
Relationship
Compassion
Life Partner
Animal Rescue
Values
Peaceful Home
Description

A woman asks for guidance regarding her relationship with her husband. She is passionate about animal rescue and wants to expand her work, but feels her husband is holding her back. While he is a good companion, she is confused whether to stay with him or move forward alone. Her husband, also present, clarifies that he has no issue with her work but is concerned about her haste, advising a slower, more methodical approach and offering his support. Acharya Prashant addresses the couple, stating that if their disagreement is merely about the speed or method of work, it is a minor issue that can be resolved through discussion. He advises them to focus on the work itself rather than finding faults in each other, as every human is an effigy of mistakes. He cautions against letting small matters become major conflicts that could jeopardize their larger, shared goal. He emphasizes the importance of having a "fundamental agreement" on core values in a relationship. Using compassion as an example, he confirms with both that it is a shared value for them. This shared fundamental, he explains, provides a solid foundation upon which they can build. He stresses the need to keep the "home front" peaceful, as a disturbed home life makes life hell and prevents one from achieving anything significant externally. Acharya Prashant advises that relationships, once formed with care and based on fundamental alignment, should be honored and sustained. He warns against making drastic decisions like separation over small disagreements, as this would be an "inconsiderate recklessness" that could sabotage their noble work. He suggests that if they listen to his talks on the human-nature relationship, it could bring more clarity and improve their mutual understanding.