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Why do you want to get married? || Acharya Prashant (2018)
Shakti
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Marriage
Companionship
Liberation
Social Pressure
Mental Peace
Relationships
Friendship
Self-Awareness
Description

Acharya Prashant addresses the pressure to marry by emphasizing that companionship is wonderful only if it helps the mind remain centered. He explains that the social institution of marriage is secondary to the actual effect a person's presence has on one's mind. If a relationship has a becalming, illuminating, or liberating effect, it is beneficial; however, one must avoid entering relationships based on sexuality, loneliness, or social pressure. He warns that an action arising from fear or conformity will only lead to more fear and lack of freedom. The primary goal should be liberation and a sorted mind, as any action taken from an unsorted state will inevitably be wrong. He further clarifies that the reasons most people marry—such as social security, physical desires, or family expectations—are often flawed. Whether one is married or single is inconsequential; what matters is the quality of the company one keeps and its impact on one's mental state. Regarding friendships and social circles, Acharya Prashant advises against labeling people with permanent tags of respect. He suggests evaluating individuals based on their current actions and state of mind. A true friend or partner is defined as someone who brings you back to your own serenity and peace, rather than someone who agitates or unsettles your mind.