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Fear of Being Judged by Others || Acharya Prashant, with ITM-Mumbai (2023)
Breaking Free
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11 months ago
Fear of judgment
Focus
Love for work
Half-heartedness
Authenticity
Presence
Attention
Commitment
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that the fear of being judged arises when one's heart is not fully in their work. When a person is not deeply involved in what they are doing, their mind naturally wanders toward the opinions of others. He uses the analogy of a cricketer who must focus entirely on the ball rather than the eighty thousand spectators in the stadium; if the cricketer's mind is on the audience, it indicates a lack of love for the game. The core issue is not the concern for opinions, but a lack of passion and depth in the task at hand. He advises that if a task does not deserve one's full attention, it should be avoided, but once chosen, it must be approached with total commitment. He emphasizes that half-heartedness is a curse and that living a lukewarm life prevents internal growth and cleansing. To overcome the fear of judgment, one must bring warmth and authenticity to everything they touch, whether it is a presentation, academics, or even simple daily tasks like polishing shoes. He stresses the importance of being fully present in the moment rather than treating the present as a formality to be tolerated while waiting for a future 'golden day.' By being completely immersed in the current action, the individual becomes 'dead to the world' and its judgments, as there is no mental space left to worry about the audience's reaction. One must be discreet in choosing what deserves their energy and then plunge into it entirely.