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कौन विवाह करे और कौन नहीं? || आचार्य प्रशांत (2019)
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Marriage
Purpose of Life
Spirituality
Loneliness
Suffering
Awareness
Intoxication
Choice
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that meaningfulness is the only essential requirement in life. He notes that while finding a higher purpose is ideal, most people lack a grand goal to which they can sacrifice their lives. For such individuals, marriage is a practical necessity to prevent internal unrest and a sense of missing out. He observes that many who avoid marriage out of a false sense of rebellion or idealism often regret it by middle age, finding themselves without both spiritual realization and the simple comforts of family life. He emphasizes that unless one has a truly high objective, like a great scientist, artist, or spiritual seeker, remaining unmarried leads to a barren and lonely existence. He further argues that for the common person, the domestic struggles and responsibilities of family life are a necessary distraction to pass the time. Without these, one might face deep psychological distress and loneliness. He warns against staying unmarried merely as a fashion statement, suggesting that only those who have dedicated themselves to a rigorous spiritual practice or have 'accepted the Divine as their partner' should choose such a path. For others, the 'necessary hell' of household life is better than the void of a purposeless, solitary life. Addressing the question of how to internalize good habits and values, Acharya Prashant states that the method is through 'sensitivity to pain.' He explains that people often use various forms of 'intoxication'—whether substances or worldly obsessions like money and status—to hide their inner suffering. He asserts that to heal, one must first have the courage to fully experience and acknowledge their pain rather than suppressing it. He concludes by dismissing the excuse of ignorance, stating that what we know or choose not to know is a personal choice, much like choosing which channel to watch on a television with a remote in hand.