I am saying this as a friend of the woman. I am asking her, why is the male sight or the male gaze so important to you? If you want attention from people, if you want respect from people, why can’t it be for higher reasons? Why do you want them to look at you because you have a sexy figure? Why can’t you have them look at you because you have certain qualities or accomplishments?

Remember, if you want men to look at just your body, they would actually be always looking down at you. But if people, men, or women look at you because of your qualities, they would always be looking up to you.

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