Acharya Prashant: Nobody has ever really said that the mind needs to be controlled or can be controlled. It is only the control-freaks who talk of this language. The very constitution of the mind is objects and objects by definition are changing all the time. So, what do you mean by controlling the mind? The only thing that can be done is accompany the mind like a lover, wherever it goes, be with it. There is a beautiful line;
Yatra yatra mano yati, tatra tatra samadhyah
Wherever the mind goes, there is my Samadhi. It does not say that I have to bring the mind back to myself. Let the mind go wherever it wants to go. I will be along with it. I will not desert it. I repeat - not like an instructor, a policeman, or a warden, but like a lover. Not even like what you call a witness traditionally in spirituality but simply like a lover. Let the mind go wherever it wants to go. It wants to think, all right, it has all the freedom to think. It wants to imagine, it wants to hope, it wants to be afraid; let it do whatever it wants to do. But be with the mind.
Instead, morality and other kinds of influences and conditioning have taught us to suppress the mind. We have been told that certain things are good and certain things are bad. So, a certain kind of thinking is to be promoted, a certain kind of thinking is not right, bad, bad. So, kill it, suppress it. What we do not realize is whenever we say 'mind control', the energy that you are using to control the mind is the same energy that is firing the mind. So, in attempting to control the mind, you give more energy to the restlessness of the mind.
