ItтАЩs not as if you have to indefinitely stay dithered or bonded, not really. At the same time, it does not mean that the relationship has to be so material or so transactional, that once the money has been squared off or once you are sure that I have given them the requisite care, attention and emotional support, now I can just break away and separate them from my life. We are talking of neither of these ends.
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Questioner: IтАЩve reached the point where with my friends, even with my parents my sister, I donтАЩt want to talk about who did what, the gossip, go out and just do things thatтАЩs called entertainment, because weтАЩve done it for years and I want to stop doing that. In fact, I want to do zero of it and I heard you say, тАЬYou just canтАЩt leave what youтАЩve accumulatedтАЭ and what comes up for me is that when I see certain behaviour, I feel disgusted.
So, when I see, say my parents, doing things out of habit or pattern and not being able to see it or even at least to me worse than that is not wanting to go to the fact just believing it out of habit, I feel disgusted and then I feel disgusted at myself for being in that environment and not being brave enough to do something about it and then I look at my weaknesses and I feel disgusted that IтАЩm not compassionate, IтАЩm putting up with things, IтАЩm not doing what feels right and I guess the money example was easy; that only give as much as is needed and thatтАЩs quantifiable. How do I do it with family, in terms of attention and they want sympathy and I want to tell them to see things as it is and I would like them to show it to me as well and thatтАЩs why I would like to do is just move away, but that feels like an escape in a way and I just heard you say that you just canтАЩt leave what youтАЩve accumulated.
