Most of us are not the bunnies our parents want us to be. Whose problem is it? Yours? Let it be their problem! Why do you worry?
First of all, you unnecessarily give birth to a child, and then you burden him with your expectations. Instead of apologizing to him constantly, throughout, you keep asserting yourself on him: “You must be like that! You must be like that! You owe it to us!” Hell! Do I?