“The food is not good. You smell bad. You do not flush properly. You are overspending on this thing. No, I would not watch that movie." That is the stuff of your usual domestic. What else do you fight over? Whether or not Trump should interfere in Ukraine? Is that what husbands and wives fight over? No. Only these things. "Why were you ogling at the neighbor?" Focus on what is important and forget the rest.
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Questioner: Pranam Acharya Ji. I am a 30-year-old mom of a three-year-old daughter and currently doing masters, and I am not financially independent. So, I am worried about getting a job, and sometimes, due to conflict with my husband, I am having psychosomatic problems. So, when we fight, because of our fights I notice my daughter is also getting affected. So, should I just refrain from fighting in front of her and go to bed without solving, like my husband is not bothered to resolve this on the same night, which leaves me sleepless? And this has been, like, for a year I am having insomnia because of these kinds of problems. So, how should I come out of it?
Acharya Prashant: From what I hear, the only problem, or the biggest problem, is that you are not financially independent. So, why will your husband quarrel with you over this one? If this is your biggest problem, why are you investing yourself in other little micro problems? Why are you fighting over petty things? Do you have the energy? Can you afford this? Or should you rather reserve yourself to fight the central problem? How will you get a job? How will you start a career if your energy and time are being distracted, dissipated in these narrow domestic quarrels?
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