You know, if your husband is gone, your finances are gone. Therefore, you will guard your husband very, very strongly, very possessively. It’s not love, it’s dependence. In love, you often allow the other to fly free. But if you are acting as that possessive wife or girlfriend or whatever, that is also because you are dependent, and that is violence, is it not?
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Questioner: My name is Nasima Muzawar. So before asking my question, I had to say this thing about the Nirbhaya rape case. One of the lawyers commented on the victim, “Agar mithai ka dabba khula hoga to cheentiyaan to aayengi na.” So about that, I have to ask, does the rise in rape cases depend on what the woman wears, the clothing?
Acharya Prashant: Do you have a mental asylum in Goa? You go there, and you'll be recording all kinds of statements? Should we be discussing those statements? Do we need to glorify those statements with this stage? Somebody comes and says, “Mithai ka dabba hai khol ke chalegi to cheentiyaan aayengi.” Some madman is uttering something. Why should you be bothered? Are you a mithai ka dabba? What kind of analogy is this, “Mithai ka dabba?”
I understand somebody is making that statement. That statement tells about that person, not anything about you. A madman is uttering gibberish. You listen to the gibberish. That gibberish tells you something about the madman, not about the woman the gibberish is aimed at. Not getting it?
