Men Desperately Trying to Understand Women - and Failing!

Questioner: Thank you for meeting with me again, Acharya Ji! I have a question.

Every time I see an attractive woman, I’m gonna feel the impulse to drop everything and look at her.

Men’s headspace is occupied with conquering women. Can I train myself out of it?

But I have a question, I have a question Acharya ji, I have a question.

Feminism has made it popular knowledge that women have been subjugated and all of that I mean, there are ways in which man also suffers.

Acharya Prashant: Answer this question, is it possible to have a society in which one of the genders is healthy and the other one is sick? Men are themselves in a very horrible place.

Questioner: Blaming the women makes it easier for me to not look at myself.

Acharya Prashant: Why are many women, probably most women reluctant to put things clearly upfront? Why do they deal so much in hints, in pointers, in imagery, in symbols? Even men show these characteristics. When do people behave like that?

You are insecure!

You are forced to display this kind of behavior when there is fear. These things are absent in your life — Fearlessness, Love, Truth. When the relationship has a lot of Love, then you’re not afraid to be blunt. They say, “The way men talk to each other is like punching each other in the face.” Now, it’s very gross.

SEX:

Man just has too many desires. I’m failing everywhere, failing everywhere at some place let me succeed. So, he succeeds in the genital domain.

Spiritual ignorance is where all of this is coming from. It has robbed us of the basic normal fun of life.

I’m trying to peel off the layers of her conditioning. All this while you are just peeling off her clothes, that’s all that you manage to peel off, right son?

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