Love knows on its own. Love needs no instructions. Hence, we are so afraid of it. We cannot control it. We do not know where it would go and what trouble it might lead us into. So, we say, keep your hands off this dangerous thing! Better be in formal relationships. There everything is nicely compartmentalized; there nothing can go berserk; there, there is no danger of our madness letting loose.
In love, your intrinsic madness starts playing out. And then all the artificialities that we have, they get threatened. We don’t quite like that. Oh, we like that so much actually. We like that so much that we are afraid of it.