Most of the lovers, if you go to them and tell them point-blank that what they are experiencing is merely physical attraction, they feel offended.
They say, “No, it has something to do with the soul. My spirit is in love with her spirit. It is not merely bodily. I don’t even want to touch her; I just want to be with her!”
It’s just the ego trying to get a good name for itself. It’s just lust trying to wear saintly clothes. And that happens most of the times, so you should be very, very careful against it.