The prerequisite is love, and love is an openness. Love is a vulnerability. Without that, all you will have is dry and meaningless and violent argumentation that yields nothing.
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Questioner: Namaste sir. So, there were two questions that came to me. First was that, when you talked about the fact that there are people who find an invincible position, though they are in a stupid position. So, I have come across such situations, but what should one do? What is the appropriate — is it that one should not even try to haggle along or fight along? Or, what is the way? What should one do in such situations?
Acharya Prashant: What do you do when somebody closes the door on — you, and it's a thick iron door? Do you fight the door or lovelessness?
Questioner: Lovelessness.
Acharya Prashant: Right? You cannot fight the door. The door is the solid, impenetrable argument that the person has. So, you would be very stupid if you fight the door and start arguing. You have to understand where the door is coming from, where the argument is coming from. That argument is coming from a perceived lack of love. Address that, and the door would be opened.
