Rarely would you find a man and a woman who would be able to trust each other without gossiping, without engaging in small talk, loose talk. In fact, the moment you are intimate with someone, you usually become that person’s dustbin.
As long as there was some distance, he would respect your space. He would not want to fill up your space with all kinds of nonsense and rubbish. But once you are close, then the other person feels licensed and entitled to communicate any kind of worthless, trivial information to you.