Acharya Prashant explains that the most straightforward psychology behind using abusive language is the desire to hurt someone. When you want to cause someone pain, you abuse them. This is the fundamental psychology. To delve deeper, he explains that to inflict maximum hurt, one must strike at the other person's core, their vital point (marmasthal). He uses the analogy of a physical attack: a bullet in the hand or leg is survivable, but one in the neck, chest, or brain is fatal. To truly hurt someone, you must attack what is most central and sacred to them. Abuse, in a broader sense, is an attack on what a person holds sacred. It is not just a word but can be any action that violates this sacredness. The central idea of abuse is the refusal to acknowledge anything as sacred. The abuser essentially declares, "Whatever you consider sacred, I will make it profane." This is a matter of culture, not spirituality. While spiritually, purity and impurity have different meanings, most people live on a socio-cultural level. In this context, the thing most people would never want to see defiled is the women of their family. Their chastity and honor are held in high regard. Therefore, most abuses target the women of the family, as the abuser knows this will inflict the maximum pain. The person who abuses, in reality, does not believe in any sacredness. The speaker notes that the modern intellectual class, particularly those influenced by Western culture, uses profanity more freely because they often don't hold anything sacred. The ego finds it difficult to bow before anything, and the intellectual class can be highly egoistic. To avoid bowing down, they discard the very concept of sacredness. When nothing is sacred, anything can be abused. In contrast, those from traditional backgrounds are taught that some things are sacred and must not be defiled. They have a concept of purity, like removing shoes before entering a temple. The speaker concludes by reiterating two points: first, you abuse to hurt someone by striking their core; second, if the ultimate Truth is not at your core, then for most, the most sacred thing becomes the women of the family, which is why they are often the target of abuse.