A questioner expresses his frustration in trying to share spiritual teachings with his family, as his efforts have been met with resistance, leaving him feeling helpless. Acharya Prashant advises him to continue with his own spiritual practice, stating that he does the same. He explains that bringing about change in others is both very easy and very difficult. A real transformation in another person comes from one's own being, not just from words. Trying to persuade others verbally is challenging because they have their own reasons to disbelieve. Acharya Prashant emphasizes that the most effective method is to become a living, direct proof of change. When people witness a tangible transformation in you, they cannot deny or dispute it. This will pique their curiosity. He notes that people are naturally curious, and even if they are not initially seeking improvement, they will be drawn to see what is happening. This curiosity is the entry point. He contrasts this with actively preaching, which often leads to rejection. The key, he says, is to "tell a little, show a lot more." It is more important for others to see the change in you; then, even a few words will have an impact. When someone shows genuine curiosity, one should not hesitate to explain further. Addressing the issue of family resistance, Acharya Prashant explains that the family is part of the same environment that caused the seeker's initial entanglements. The seeker has started a new chapter, but the family has not. Therefore, taking the spiritual message back to the source of the problem will naturally face opposition. If the immediate circle is not receptive, one should not get discouraged. Instead, one should share the teachings with others who are ready to listen. This practice will also refine the seeker's ability to communicate. When family members see that others are listening, they too may become curious. He concludes by advising to maintain a heartfelt connection with family and wait for the right time for them, but to continue the efforts with others in the meantime, giving water to those who are thirsty.
