How to Control OneтАЩs Anger? Best Ways Explained By Acharya Prashant
DonтАЩt ask, тАЬWhy did I get angry?тАЭ Ask, тАЬWhy does guilt arise? Why this divided mind? Why canтАЩt my anger be complete?тАЭ Does resisting anger not fuel it? In trying to control yourself, are you not giving yourself energy to act the same way? ThatтАЩs dualityтАЩs principleтАФwhat you try to control, you energize. By saying, тАЬI do not want to get angry,тАЭ youтАЩre still thinking of anger. But anger is seductive. Anger attracts. So, now I think of anger through the other route. I think of anger by telling myself not to be angry.
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Questioner: My question is about anger. A few days back I got angry over the behaviour of another woman on the road and bashed out on her, without thinking anything. I then got this feeling that it should not have been done. I donтАЩt know what I was doing. Inside I was feeling like, тАЬHow could I do that?тАЭ At the same time what was happening was intolerable.
Acharya Prashant: If it was really not tolerable, why do you blame yourself for getting angry?
Questioner: No, I am not blaming the anger but this doesnтАЩt usually happen.
Acharya Prashant: Why is the incident still sitting in your mind? Surely there is guilt. Surely you are blaming yourself. Do you remember everything that has happened over the last five days? Then why do you remember this one in particular? Because you do not like that you got angry. It violates the image that your teachers and parents and all the nice books provided you. тАЬThe nice lady does not get angryтАЭ. Why does the nice lady not get angry?
