This mark of false love || Neem Candies

As long as the relationship is of need, the relationship will remain one of violence. You can never be more violent upon anybody than upon someone you love—so-called love. Because the greater is your love for someone, the greater is your investment in that person. And you invest in someone only to get returns.

You never want the other person. You want returns from the other person. When those returns are not forthcoming, have you seen how you shout, how you go breathless, how you panic, how you stamp your feet, how you pull the other’s hair, how you pull out your own hair? Have you seen the orgy of your own frustration?

Where does that frustration come from? That frustration comes really from an absence of love.

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