Questioner: My name is Rohit. My question is related to failures. At certain moments of life we feel that we have had enough of failures and we are tired of it. Similar goes with me, like I have been trying my best in my life to do everything that I can, I give my best in everything. I have been a very positive minded person but like I have been disappointed in myself. I’m not disappointed in others, but I'm disappointed in myself. But every time I try myself to stand up, and give up my best, but now I feel like, yeah! it’s been a lot of failures in my life, In both my personal and social life.
I try hard to please people, I try to give my best in a relationship but sometimes I get disappointed and dejection. So, I don’t know how much I recover myself because after every time I fail, every time sole within me weakened. It begins to me a little bit even if I try to get up and work more but it’s not the same spirit. I don't have the same spirit anymore. and at the present moment I just feel that I'm already very much weakened. But still I'm trying hard to cope up with everything and go full force.
But sir (acharya ji) like it’s really disappointing for me sometimes, so I want to know how should I tackle this or what approach should I take in my life to just finish these failures and succeed in my life both in personal and social life?
Acharya Prashant: You don’t need an approach to deal with failure, Rohit. You need reality.
You see, you wanted to do something. If you wanted to do something there must have been a reason. Why are you just randomly pushing yourself into something that doesn’t happen. Right?
