The other must exist in your life, and vice versa, only for the sake of internal elevation, to make you into a better person. Don't you see the impact the other one is having on your life? Seeing is the key. What does seeing mean? Seeing implies understanding. See and ask yourself: What is the impact upon me? And if you see that, you'll just push it aside. It will be spontaneous. You won't even require to think, because now you have seen.
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Questioner: So as you said that you should let go of a person who does all of those things. So here comes the topic about detachment. Sometimes we know deep inside that whatever pattern it is, it's not right and that we need to let go of it. But sometimes what happens is that we tend to click with certain people, and we are not able to click with other people in that same manner at all, right? So it becomes difficult to detach, and everyone says that you detach, you let go. But how exactly do we detach?
But it's not by just blocking or not viewing their profile and all of that, because deep inside we know that we are still going to think about them, right? So, how exactly can we implement that?
Acharya Prashant: Ghosting. Oh my God, there's a fly here (pointing towards the cup of tea). There's a fly here, but I'm still attached; Eww! I want to hear the cringe from you, please. I'm so attached. I've seen the fly, yet sipping it. That “Eww!” was not for me; it was not for the fly either. There is no fly. It was for the question.
