Listener 1: Sir, if we talk about relationships, there is caste system and all this comes from the society only. Taking my personal example, my boyfriend is a Brahmin and I am not; so his parents oppose our relationship and we cannot continue this way in the future. So, ultimately we have to break it up. How to deal with these things?
Speaker: What enables the other person to control me?
Listener 2: My fears.
Speaker: Why must I be afraid of the other person? We all complain that our lives are dominated by external influences and that makes life miserable; but have you ever tried to think what enables that other person to control me?
Listener 3: We let them do that.
Speaker: Why do we let them do that?
Listener 3: We are habituated of that and hence we let them control us.
