Living totally does not mean that you need to have a flamboyant lifestyle, that you need to be lavishly spending or lavishly consuming. Living totally means that you remain the same in the moment of your deepest fulfillment and in the moment of your deepest frustration.
Living totally is something totally different. You may go and eat in a restaurant, or you may eat in your own small and humble kitchen—wherever you eat, you are alright. There is something within you which is not a function of the place where you are eating.