X says, “If I am with A, I want to keep A running after me because that’s what makes me feel important.” The more A tells me that “Without you I feel lonely, lonely, and lonely,” the more X feels important.
Does X sound familiar? Most people in the world belong to the X category. Most places belong to X category. Most activities belong to X category. The more you are with them, the more you become dependent on their company. The moment they are not with you, you start feeling more lonely than before.
And then there is the option to be with Y entities. What is the characteristic of Y? The more you are with them, the more they reduce your dependence on them. The more you are with them, the lesser your tendency to feel lonely.