Acharya Prashant advises that one should first become something in life, achieve an internal milestone, and only then will one understand with whom to form a relationship. He cautions against forming relationships at a young age, for instance, at 26. Your goal might be to rise high in life, but the person you form a relationship with may have no interest in rising or advancing; their only concern might be to expand. You want to rise, while they want to spread. When you try to rise, they will not let you; they will pull you down. You end up crying because, at 26 or 28, you had such a strong itch of lust that you couldn't resist and ended up getting married. You don't understand that these activities are not personal or social; they are, in fact, natural, biological, and physical. Your body makes you do all this, with society just being a name. You don't understand the intentions of nature, nor the restlessness of your own consciousness. You have no self-knowledge and have never engaged in self-inquiry. You have never gone to the scriptures or received an education to know yourself. The result is wrong relationships, a wrong present, a wrong future, and a ruined life. Those who want to rise in life, whose life's graph is meant to go upwards, should they form relationships quickly or wait and do it later? The reason people get into relationships is not loneliness, but lust. If it were loneliness, one could make friends, play badminton, or join a cricket team. Loneliness is not something that is only मिटता (mitata - erased) with someone of the opposite gender. The issue is something else. You think lust gives you pleasure, but you don't understand that it has not come to give you pleasure; it has come to make you a captive for life, to ruin you. This applies to both boys and girls. You think it's great fun, that she has given you a sign. She hasn't just given you a sign; she has written your death sentence. Every lustful person's condition is the same: they are hanging until they die. You think it's fun when you wink and get a wink back, but that dead eye will kill many things in you. The speaker clarifies that he has no problem with girls, boys, or life being wasted. As a human, you are not an animal like a pig, donkey, or dog, for whom any kind of life will do. You have a right to a higher life, and you are depriving yourself of that right. He is not a moralist who hates lust, sex, or nature. The point is that in these entanglements, you will ruin your life because you don't understand where these cycles are coming from. Understanding nature is not easy. In fact, the entire body of spiritual literature is not about understanding the Self but about understanding the non-self, which is nature. Understanding oneself means understanding nature. That is why spirituality is necessary for the young.