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तुम जगो, तो ही दूसरों को जगा पाओगे || आचार्य प्रशांत (2017)
आचार्य प्रशांत
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Transformation
Relationships
Truth
Sadhak
Evidence
Patience
Duty
Devotion
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that when a person undergoes an inner transformation, their existing relationships often face friction because the other person still identifies them with their old self. Since relationships are typically built on mutual compatibility and shared traits, a sudden shift in one person's dimension of thought and behavior feels like a betrayal or a facade to the other. The speaker emphasizes that one must provide living proof of this change through their life. Just as a seed proves its existence by becoming a sprout, then a plant, and finally a flower, a seeker's life must eventually manifest undeniable results that silence mockery and doubt. While initial changes might be ignored or ridiculed as a 'mask' or 'drama', a fully blossomed life becomes an undeniable reality that others must eventually take seriously. He advises seekers to maintain a balance between the 'sky' (Truth) and the 'earth' (worldly duties and friends). One should not abandon their friends or family in the name of Truth; instead, they should hold Truth with one hand and their companions with the other. Although this creates internal tension and conflict, a strong seeker must endure it. The blessings received from the Truth are meant to be shared with those nearby. If, despite honest efforts to share and include them, others choose to leave, the seeker is no longer at fault. However, the seeker should never be the one to break the bond or run away. Sharing is as essential as attaining, but it requires patience because everyone’s 'season' for understanding arrives at a different time. Acharya Prashant highlights the specific difficulty faced by those in intimate relationships, such as with a spouse. Because a partner has seen the seeker's past flaws and desires, they find it hardest to believe in their newfound devotion. A seeker is like someone on a bridge, where both old habits and new aspirations coexist. This duality often leads to accusations of hypocrisy. The speaker notes that this skepticism is a form of 'karmic fruit' for one's past actions. Over time, consistent practice and genuine change in character will serve as evidence. Eventually, even the most skeptical observers may become curious and approach the path themselves, even if they initially do so under the guise of 'investigating' or 'testing' the teacher.