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Love and Detachment || Acharya Prashant
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Detachment
Self-Love
Self-Knowledge
Objectivity
Realism
Bias
Potential
Description

Acharya Prashant addresses the difficulty of objective self-analysis. He explains that it is easy to investigate the objective world and phenomena outside of us, such as in a laboratory, because we are not personally related to them and can maintain objectivity. However, when it comes to investigating what is going on within our own lives, it becomes a difficult and messy affair because the subject itself is involved. The key to navigating this inner world is detachment. He posits that, surprisingly, detachment comes from love, specifically self-love. If you truly love yourself, you will want to know what is happening in your life, especially if you are suffering. This desire to get out of a bad situation necessitates an independent, neutral, and unprejudiced investigation of oneself. This is what detachment means: not being prejudiced towards yourself. Therefore, detachment is not an opposite of love, but a product of it. When you want to know something, your mind gains sharpness and your entire mental energy gets focused. Acharya Prashant points out that we are rarely realistic about ourselves because we live with inner biases. These biases can be positive, such as believing, "I am a good man, but bad things are happening to me because the world is conspiring," or negative, such as thinking, "I am no good." He emphasizes that everything in the world is considered important to know about, except for the self, as if the self is worthless. He argues that self-knowledge is the most important knowledge. He concludes by advocating for a realistic approach to oneself. This involves frankly and honestly accepting where you currently stand, even if it's a mediocre level, while also having faith that you are not destined to remain there. The correct stance is to acknowledge, "This is where I stand, but my destiny is elsewhere. I will climb to the skies." This means accepting your current reality without letting it define your infinite potential.