Acharya Prashant explains that love is a fresh, spontaneous quality of relating that exists in the present moment without any background or premeditation. It is like a sudden tornado that rejuvenates an individual because it is not planned or conceptual. However, the human mind, being insecure and unable to tolerate the uncertainty and wildness of love, quickly tries to formalize it by giving it a name and turning it into a relationship. He asserts that whenever love turns into a relationship, it goes bad because relationships are dependent on the past, concepts, and social sanctions, which effectively kill the freshness of love. He highlights that relationships like 'husband' and 'wife' are dead concepts that replace the living individuals with fixed images and roles. Once a name is given, expectations, duties, and codes of conduct arise, replacing freedom with compulsion. He points out that society prefers these formal structures over actual love because they provide stability and control. He observes that even in family dynamics, such as between a father and son, individuals often fail to relate to each other as human beings, instead interacting through the suffocating labels of their roles. He encourages relating like a free bird rather than being trapped in a relationship, advising that one should let love be like a wild flower—unfrozen, unlimited, and free from the desire to capture or label it.