Acharya Prashant addresses the common issue of losing confidence and feeling helpless when communicating with others, despite possessing the necessary knowledge. He clarifies that the problem is rarely a lack of information, as most people can easily write down their thoughts on paper. Instead, the root cause is the presence of the other person and the psychological dependency one has on their approval. He distinguishes between two types of minds: one that is intrinsically complete and independent of external validation, and another that carries a 'begging bowl,' constantly seeking certificates of worth from society. He explains that fear arises solely from dependency. When an individual relies on others to define their self-image, they become a slave to the world's opinions, living in a cycle of hope for praise and fear of criticism. Acharya Prashant emphasizes that 'confidence' is merely a temporary remedy for fear; the true goal should be fearlessness, which comes from reducing dependency. He encourages the audience to have deep faith in their own essential completeness, regardless of external failures, vices, or lack of skills. Furthermore, he challenges the notion of 'myself,' pointing out that most people's identities are merely a collection of acquired labels from society, such as nationality, religion, and personality traits. He asserts that true listening and learning are only possible when the mind is free from these identities and influences. To relate to the world beautifully and learn from it, one must first be their own master and stop being a beggar for recognition. He concludes that while one should take information from others, one's own attention and understanding must ultimately determine their life.
