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Emotional dependency and loneliness || Acharya Prashant, with IIT Bombay (2020)
Shakti
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Loneliness
Dependency
Ego
Incompleteness
Liberation
Vedanta
Spirituality
Self-realization
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that loneliness and dependency are not superficial issues but arise from a fundamental sense of incompleteness inherent in the human condition. He asserts that every human is born with a deep-seated feeling that something is not quite right, leading to a lifelong, desperate attempt at rectification through knowledge, wealth, and relationships. This sense of imperfection is both biological, due to our physical limitations, and social, imposed by identities like nationality or gender. He describes loneliness as an existential problem where the individual feels inadequate without external additions or amplifications. He argues that while people often try to fight loneliness through shallow distractions like social gatherings or entertainment, these are merely temporary antidepressants. The real solution lies in moving beyond the body-identified and socially-identified ego. Acharya Prashant suggests that life is only worth living if there is a possibility of liberation from the ego; otherwise, existence becomes a cycle of slavery and anxiety. He emphasizes that true freedom from dependency is possible only by exercising the option to live as something beyond the ego. To overcome these existential challenges, Acharya Prashant invites the listener to study fundamental spiritual scriptures and the teachings of great masters like Shri Krishna, Mahavir, and Kapil Rishi. He explains that engaging with these profound teachings provides a higher pleasure and fulfillment that makes worldly loneliness irrelevant. Instead of desperately seeking to add people to one's life, a person in this state of fulfillment seeks to purify their mental space by removing unnecessary clutter and distractions. This shift transforms an individual from a beggar seeking company into a person of immense power who exercises discretion over their sacred mental space.