Acharya Prashant addresses a woman experiencing severe marital conflict, suggesting that she is seeking a solution within the very framework that has caused her suffering. He describes this framework as a cycle of attraction, conflict, repulsion, reconciliation, breaking up, and patching up. This cycle, he explains, keeps the mind perpetually occupied, whether with romantic thoughts or anxious ones. The core issue is that the relationship has become the center of her life, eclipsing all other aspects of her existence. The speaker points out that this intense focus on one person means there is something amiss in the relationship at all times, keeping her engaged. He questions what happened to her other interests and pursuits, such as her education in mathematics, history, or science, or her hobbies like sports. He suggests that her entire life, from her youth to her potential old age, is being consumed by thoughts of this one man. This preoccupation with another person is a way to while away time when one lacks a higher purpose. He calls this a top-class addiction, where the body of another individual becomes the primary focus. Acharya Prashant contrasts this with a right relationship, which he describes as an accidental byproduct of pursuing a great destination or a worthy project in life. A right relationship's purpose is to elevate one's consciousness. If a relationship is not fulfilling this purpose, it becomes a great waste and a drag. He clarifies that greatness does not preclude anything in particular, like sex, but it does preclude smallness. The issue is not sex itself, but the smallness that usually accompanies it. He advises the questioner to find a worthy purpose and move with all her might towards a great destination. When one is committed to a higher priority, a beautiful relationship may come about accidentally, not by searching for the right person, but by being the right person engaged in a worthy project.