Acharya Prashant explains that "Vairagya" (dispassion) means the end of attraction towards small, foolish things. It is not that nothing seems lovely, but that filth no longer seems lovely. Vairagya is when you are no longer interested in garbage. He distinguishes this from disappointment, which is when you are sad about not getting something you still desire. In disappointment, the attraction to the worthless thing remains, and if a chance to get it arises, disappointment turns into hope. True Vairagya, born of wisdom, is when you recognize something as garbage and would not accept it even if offered on a golden platter. He further clarifies that Vairagya is not a negative word; it is inseparable from wisdom (Vivek) and love (Prem). It is the love for the higher, like diamonds and jewels, that makes one let go of the lower, like garbage. Vairagya is also surrender (Samarpan). When you let go of what is petty and valueless, there should be no pain, just as you would brush off dust from your hand without mourning. In contrast, worldly attachment (sansarik raag) is like licking the dust that has fallen on your hand. Addressing the questioner's feeling of being stuck, Acharya Prashant describes it as an internal conflict, a tug-of-war between truth and falsehood where neither side is winning. He advises her to strengthen the side of truth. He dismisses her suicidal thoughts as weakness and a waste of a valuable life, pointing out that as a financially independent and mature woman, she is not helpless. He attributes her feeling of being bound to a habit and a victim mindset. He advises her to find a meaningful, higher purpose and dedicate herself to it to remain engaged and joyful, rather than getting caught in domestic squabbles. Finally, he notes that the suspicion her family holds towards spiritual teachers is a collective karma of society, resulting from the actions of fraudulent gurus. This is a burden that everyone, including himself, has to bear.